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Doot
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2003 10:35 am    Post subject:

BWS! You and your girlfriend aren't together anymore??

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Tobias
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2003 10:46 am    Post subject:

Oi! Thats sad man. Isa sorries. Something that has been going on for sucha long time must really be hard on ya. I hope that ur ok in the future

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BWS-1
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 25, 2003 1:20 am    Post subject:

Yeah I'll be ok, I have to just, live my life and see what will come next ... I had plans, plans of being a father, having a stable life with her, but I guess it's better for the both of us that we realize it couldn't go on now rather then later, once the kids are there ...

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Righty The Wonder Ghoul
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 11:21 pm    Post subject:

daaaaamn man that sucks bws. i was gonna come in here and complain that i cant get girls, but i think your situation hurt more than mine. sorry man, that really sucks the big one. at least you are handling it well, so good luck man.

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BWS-1
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2003 11:43 pm    Post subject:

Well, don't tell yourself that your situation isn't worth being mentioned here, if it hurts you, then it hurts you, don't keep that inside man. And well, I've talked with a friend latly and I too felt that way, I was about to talk about my situation but when my friend started to tell me about what was happening to her, I felt like ... wow, my problem isn't a problem afterall, it's just, something that has been solved and needs to be accepted by me. Since yeah, everything is solved, there is no more problem, the only thing I have a hard time standing is this new ''reality'' I face without her, it's hard, real hard ... or maybe it's just me being weak, eithger way, it sucks.

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Katana
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 29, 2003 4:12 pm    Post subject:

"Sometimes, the greatest strength of all is allowing yourself weaknesses."--Me

;_; I sowwie B~

I know how ya feel... Sad

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Selrahc the Evil
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 06, 2003 1:29 pm    Post subject:

Katana in the past when you first started this forum I came to you in need of advise. You always were able to help. Now I have another problem. I am now in the same boat with BWS. After a little more than a year me and my GF have now broken up. I still don't know why it happened. It was saturday morning when she called and told me that she wanted to break up. I was speachless. I know her very well and I knew then that there was nothing I could do to change her mind.
I have had relationships in the past that didn't work but never have I felt so much pain. I feel like I am being consumed by it. I know that I have to get over it and move on but I just can't. I feel like I have lost a part of me.
To make things worse this came when I am already under itense stress from school parents and health problems. I don't know what to do.
How do I deal with this?

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Jim Bont
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2003 3:18 pm    Post subject:

heres a question for ya...

me and my girlfriend broke up a good while ago now..she moved very far away so we had to break up but shes in town now for the holidays...and ive seen her and spent time with her...we've messed around a lil and stuff and wow i still really care about her but it cant work cuz i live outside DC and shes in Arizona but im stupid and cant move on...even tho there is a girl here im interested in...but i still really care about my x gf...lil help?
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Katana
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 08, 2003 9:12 pm    Post subject:

Selrahc the Evil wrote:
Katana in the past when you first started this forum I came to you in need of advise. You always were able to help. Now I have another problem. I am now in the same boat with BWS. After a little more than a year me and my GF have now broken up. I still don't know why it happened. It was saturday morning when she called and told me that she wanted to break up. I was speachless. I know her very well and I knew then that there was nothing I could do to change her mind.
I have had relationships in the past that didn't work but never have I felt so much pain. I feel like I am being consumed by it. I know that I have to get over it and move on but I just can't. I feel like I have lost a part of me.
To make things worse this came when I am already under itense stress from school parents and health problems. I don't know what to do.
How do I deal with this?


I have wondered the same thing myself.

And the truth is, there's really nothing you can do. You can try to find out why she left, but the truth may be more painful than the wondering. Time is the only thing that can heal the pain. Find an outlet, such as art, or writing, and try to find someone to gain advice from, someone older. (My person for such advice, for example, is Teh Doot, and she's helped me a LOT ) Other than that, I wish I could help you out with the pain, but I really have no remedy. I'm here if you need to talk.

My AIM is kaylaisconfused

Good luck.

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Katana
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 08, 2003 9:15 pm    Post subject:

Jim Bont wrote:
heres a question for ya...

me and my girlfriend broke up a good while ago now..she moved very far away so we had to break up but shes in town now for the holidays...and ive seen her and spent time with her...we've messed around a lil and stuff and wow i still really care about her but it cant work cuz i live outside DC and shes in Arizona but im stupid and cant move on...even tho there is a girl here im interested in...but i still really care about my x gf...lil help?


If you broke up just because she moved away, then there might be a chance she still cares for you. But, if you broke up because of diffrences...Well, that lessens your chance. Be honest with both girls (your ex and the one you're interested in ) and also be honest with yourself, and only time will tell.

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