why are girls so retarded - retards....

jezzy · crazy uncle Gender: Joined: 12 May 2003

most girls like the hot guys that happen to be jerks. They never go after the sweet guys that are great people. The guys that are hot are jerks, because they know they are hot and they think they can have anyone they want so why try to be nice? The other guys are sweet, because they know how it feels to be hurt. They have no need to be mean. The nice guys are there for you to lean on, to rant to, and to cry to. The other guys are there to hurt you. The hot guys get all the girls and the girls ruin them. I bet they were sweet before all the girls started flocking to them, but then the stupid girls hurt them and in return the guys are ruined forever. Until the guys themselves fall in love and are changed. The latter happens to very few. I am one of those stupid girls. Right now i like a hot guy, but he has been a jerk to me. He thinks he hasn't but he has. I recently met a really sweet guy(you know who u are ^_^) and he has helped me tons. I wish every guy was as sweet as him. But anyways like I was saying. Most hot guys are usually jerks. They are jerks, because 1. they know they are hot and have no need to be nice or 2.the girls they have been with are stupid and have ruined them. It sucks for the girls like me who think they can change them, because it won't happen. Come on face reality. The world is a sucky place and it contains even worse people. The only good thing about it are the nice people that seem to slip through the cracks of the worlds crappyness. I have found out that people that actually get to know the person and get to love them get hurt in the end. It's really sad and some people arent like what im talking about. Some people fall in love and are great people and aren't meant to get hurt. Sorry this is so melancholy and negative, but get over it and face reality thats the way the world is and no one will change anything. Unless you are determined enough to fight through anything and do everything you can for the cause.

ShinkuKitsune · Follower of Yoshiki-ism Gender: Joined: 27 Mar 2003

Well, I usually end up -totally- despising jerks no matter how good looking they are... Razz

And when the hot guys aren't jerks, they are probably either
1. Married, engaged, taken, whatever
or
2. Homosexual
But there are exceptions... they're just hiding o.-;;

jezzy · crazy uncle Gender: Joined: 12 May 2003

you mean to tell me that if mana came up to you and acted like a total jerk and then asked you out that you would say no? i dont think so shinkie...everyone is shallow to some extent whether they admit it or not...

Tobias · *explodes* Age: 38 Gender: Joined: 17 Jan 2003

well...me being a nice guy, i know what it feels like Sad

us nice people are a dying breed, and girls just dont seem to notice that, and that they are where the real love is.

that is all Hmmm

ShinkuKitsune · Follower of Yoshiki-ism Gender: Joined: 27 Mar 2003

Assuming that he were a jerk:
Hmm.... actually, yeah, I might turn him down. No matter how much I or anyone else adore him, he's still human.
If I were really desperate, yeah, I might, but I'm not that sad.

...Ok, but I am wrong about totally despising him. I would still listen to his music..... -.-;

Righty The Wonder Ghoul · Posted: Mon May 26, 2003 8:01 pm Post subject:

hey, im a nice guy too... god i jumped on the wrong bandwagon when it comes to girls, and no, im not gonna go after guys.

Doot · Posted: Mon May 26, 2003 8:29 pm Post subject:

I think we get the point thoroughly after posts over many threads that Righty isn't into boys. Point taken, we may send out a PM to everyone to make sure EVERYONE understands. That being said, not all "hot guys" are jerks and to generalize that girls even go through that stuff is quite presumptuous.

With age comes wisdom, because you will go through many stages of your life where you'll find that it's not just hot guys that are jerks. Jerks are jerks, all shapes and sizes, hot or not.

There is a lot more stages of life one has to go through and you don't quite understand that now because you want a quick solution to the problem that ails you. If you wish to maintain a negative outlook on life then that is all you will ever take from it. Generalizing won't help.

There is always going to be positive out of a situation, and when the girls get it out of their system at an earlier age that they don't want to be around the jerks then they will realize the "nice guys" for what they are and you will prevail in the end. Justa matter of time.

jezzy · crazy uncle Gender: Joined: 12 May 2003

i dont have many girls that happen to be friends. I only have guy friends. I think more like them than i do like a girl anyways. Sometimes i wish i could kill all the really retarded girls out there and get away with it. All I have to say is that I know im a nice girl and I hope something good will come along soon.

Senkir · inward singing since 1983 Gender: Joined: 21 Sep 2002

Ming · DOOM! Gender: Joined: 13 Jan 2003

This is ironic because its usually the guys who complain about this, and how all the girls flock to the jerks and ignore them. All the guys want is for people to think just as jezzy is...that all the girls flock to the jerks because they're stupid and naive and shallow, and go for the jerks simply because they look pretty.

I know that what I said had no relevance to anything already said, I'm just intrigued by this and hope to see where it all goes...

EDIT: Senkir...you're not alone...I also skipped the middle school/high school dating years. While I regretted it sometimes, I just look at it as I skipped through all the crap and meaninglessness that comes with that stuff, usually. And while I regretted starting late on the learning curve, I found that since I was so much more mature, I picked up everything really quickly, and avoided that "trial and error" kind of period.