Um i have boy problems...... - please just listen and respond if you ca

[Midori]

Um.... i have a problem.... it is probly not one you could fix or give real good advise about, but... here it goes...
well, i liked this guy, alot, but then he asked another girl out, and well she said yes. but even tho i know he oviosly does not like me (because he asked some one else out) i still like him. Shoud i just stop liking him. or shud i just.... i duno, becuse liking him i know is not guna help but .... Well there is really nothing to respond to but if you can that woud be great. I just really needed to get that out one way or another....

[Razer]

Ok, depending on age (or maybe not) asking one person out doesn't mean he doesn't like you. When you eat one food, you don't hate the other. Sometimes you have to amke choices. I don't know if you ever made an effort to find out (maybe making some conversation or something) but if you haven't, then try. You two may not have anything in common anyway so likeing each other wouldn't make a difference.

Keep in mind this comes from someone who is probably a *bit* older and wiser than you.
Well, maybe not wiser.

[Ming]

Ok, first of all...just because he asked someone else out does not mean that he doesn't like you. I'm not sure if I share the same view as other guys, but I know that all I ever wanted was for girls to show a liking for me, instead of me having to think about it and fear the rejection that might have come from asking anyone out. A lot of girls do this...holding back their feelings and waiting for the guy to make the first move. I think that we're in a generation where this is no longer necesary, nor should be looked down on.

But anyway, now that I got that rant out of the way...

Don't just give up on liking the kid just because he's going out with someone else. Chances are that's not going to last for long, as these young "romances" tend to be. To stop liking someone because of this would be silly. I mean, you really can't help how you feel about something/someone. It's not like you can just turn that off. With that said though, you have to realize that for now, he IS taken, and you have to learn to be ok with that. If not, you're going to drive yourself crazy about it and it can start affecting other parts of your life. While you still may like the guy, you need to move on. Who knows, maybe you'll find that you like someone else also.

I really hope that helped some...

~Ming

[Selrahc the Evil]

I agree with razer. try talking to him. you never know things might turn around.

[Midori]

thanks ALOT for you imput. how ever much or litle it helped ... it helped! And ming ,... i have not gone crazy and do not intened to. Thanks a WHOLE BUNCH!!!! and if any one still wants to post they still can.... you can never have to much advice.

[Mika]

LAURA! I knoiw who this mystery guy is and thankies for teling me! I really hope this helps! Like Ming siad let me tell you from an expierience I just had, I myself jsut asked a very good guy friend of mine out, unfortunatley he said no, oh well! Laura go talk to this guy just make friendly conversation in general! He will probably only go out with Miranda for awhile so jsut bide some time! Try to understand that he likes someone else right now but he can always like you too! And one more thing Laura you better at least say Hi to him cus I've never seen ya talk to him , and you two together would look sooooooo cute* Yeah!!!!! Your silly but very fun friend, Mika! (Lee)~

[Midori]

he he he.... i have already understood that he is with maranda right now and im not going to try to change that unill it is suposed to with out my help. um only one problem with wat you just said Mika..... IM VERY SHY AND EVEN SHYER (if that is a word) AROUND PEOPLE I LIKE>>> PEOPLE I LIKE ALOT!!! (num skull he he he jk )

[Mika]

I think I've noticed that sill Midori! I will help you say "HELLO!" to start of with, then we'll move to more advanced stuff in our lessons like "How are ya?" and "Hows the weather"! LOL! i ADMIT i CAN BE A SILLY NUM SKULL THOUGH~

[jezzy]

well im in the same position...sort of...i like this guy and i have told him like 2 times...and he doesnt know if he likes me(how can you not know??) but yeah he said he didnt want to be in a relationship anyways...blah blah blah now to the advice part ill just give you what ive been getting...dont give up on him just because hes going out with someone else...he might not know u like him...and plus it always depends on how old they are...the younger the shorter the relationships are...so just keep in mind that anything can happen...be optimistic

[Midori]

kk.... 1....2....3..... IM OPTIMISTIC!!! he he he (hyper.... as mika nows...)any way thank.... and good luck with your guy......:p