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Tenshiai
Otaku Knight
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 Posted: Sun Mar 21, 2004 3:24 am Post subject: Should I move with guy ? |
So... I already told long time ago that I wanna move. I have some big problems at my house and if I want to succeed in life and be healthy again I MUST move away and live on my own.
The problem is that I don't have many money and I wanna return to shool. So, I come to think moving with some friends but the only ones who can is two mens. One of them used to love me before. I don't really like the idea to go with mens and the one of living with someone who use to love me and that I even not sur that he still not doing so. The others ones is the only one I really trust in. That's Bros. Sure, if he was sur to come it will solve the problem but if he's not...that the problem...what should I do? go with the other ?
So, I don't know if I should go with one only, try to be three or to go with someone else. All the furniture also belong to me so I'm scare to be to harsh with the men. You know like : Take care of this thing, don,t do this on that or don't let this here... If bros can't should I go with a stranger ? I don't like this either....
Maybe I'm only nervous because not many time left.... I must make a choice quickly and find someone quickly because I will lost the housing offer.
To resume, I must move soon and I must find someone. I can live with them or to rent to one a beddroom and live with the other...damn...I really dunno and if you can tell me you,re opinion or suggestion it's really welcoming ! ^^
Does two men will like to be around a motherly and leading girl like me ? I think not... In any case it can be worse of here but if the person I live with go away he will let me in BIG trouble.... |
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reaper
I miss you Shar
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| Posted: Sun Mar 21, 2004 3:49 am Post subject: |
Honestly I would say that if you really want to get out of your house, and this way makes it possible, that you should do it. I wouldn’t worry too much about the guy though. Just because they like you does not mean you can’t hang out. Just make sure that every things cool with him and I would guess there would be no problems |
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Daijaga
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| Posted: Sun Mar 21, 2004 3:14 pm Post subject: |
Id watch out. Thats a really tough question you know...especially considering your demure nature. just be sure to not let anyone take advantage of you! Make it very clear to whomever you leave with what you expect, and what better not happen. |
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Tenshiai
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| Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2004 1:25 am Post subject: |
Huuummm.... How can I know that everything is cool with him ? If he's lying ? I know that is a difficult question... You understand why that make me feel anxious.
Thank to you two for you're advice ^__^ |
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reaper
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| Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2004 1:32 am Post subject: |
I would say go have a up front conversation with him, just make sure to watch closely most people are obvious liars |
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Suna-chan
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| Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2004 11:09 am Post subject: Re: Should I move with guy ? |
| Tenshiai wrote: | | All the furniture also belong to me so I'm scare to be to harsh with the men. You know like : Take care of this thing, don,t do this on that or don't let this here... |
hmm.. that can be a difficult situation, but it's not always a problem! some guys are even more clean and take care of their possessions better than girls! ^^ and plus, it is definately understandable if you just ask them kindly to be more respectful of your belongings. So i wouldn't be too worried about that one!
| Tenshiai wrote: | | In any case it can be worse of here but if the person I live with go away he will let me in BIG trouble.... |
And don't worry- i doubt that either of them would leave you. That would just be cruel and awful, and i don't think that either of them would be that mean. (I don't know the guy who used to love you, but if he did, and still likes you and wants to move in with you, i don't think he would have any ideas of leaving ya) ^^
anyway, good luck....i hope everything works out for the best! -hug- |
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Shurikane
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| Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2004 11:27 am Post subject: |
Would you rather get annoyed by your ex-lover, or by your mom?
Take the lesser of the two evils. |
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Shino
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| Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2004 5:29 pm Post subject: |
It really depends.
1) Do not move in wiht the guy that used to have feelings for you. The last thing you want to do is have him try something.
2) How well do you know the other guy.
If you know the other guy pretty well and you know he won't try anything, go for it. Otherwise, I would stay where you are.
I have lived with 2 women and had no problems. |
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Shurikane
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| Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2004 10:10 pm Post subject: |
| Shino wrote: |
I have lived with 2 women and had no problems. |
Well, DUH!!  |
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Shino
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| Posted: Tue Mar 23, 2004 11:19 pm Post subject: |
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