-sigh- I dont know

[Shandriz]

I'm sure I probably shouldn't reply to this, being female and all, but sometimes it's good to get the opposite perspective, right?

So anyways, the -best- way to find out if a girl likes you? Ask them. Especially if they're cool enough for you to like them, Kenji-dear. I mean, because if they're at least friends with you, they aren't going to be evil about saying they -don't- like you, and yeah, you'll feel shitty afterwards, but at least you'll still have a really nice friend, right?

I mean, that's what I'd want. I absolutely -hate- not knowing if a guy likes me. It drives me insane. Sadly, though, I usually -can't- ask them, because the sort of guys I tend to like would probably take it as a joke and make up some goofball reply...so I -still- wouldn't know.

Nyu. And, as far as goths...well, -most- of them don't bother me. I mean, wearing black does not a freak make you...but wearing black lipstick if you're male? That can get a little scary. Still, I try not to judge them based on appearance alone..unless that appearance happens to include, say, drugs or alcohol. .

~The Shan~

[Tobias]

well, combine most goths with alcohol and drugs in my school, and hey, uve got people that scare ya

That is probably the single most effective way to ask someone if they like ya...to come straight out and ask them. Only thing is that its INCREDIBLY mind racking, and guys like me wont do it because we are afraid of rejection...its a cruel, cruel world we are in

That is all