Is it cheating if the other person is the same sex |
I am a male and I DO NOT think it is cheating |
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I am a male and I think it is cheating |
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I am a female and I DO NOT think it is cheating |
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I am a female and I think it is cheating |
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Andsectoid Router Monkey of DOOM!!!

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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 8:21 pm Post subject: Is It cheating??? |
Ok, here is a good question...
Is it cheating if the person you are dating, of the opposite sex, fools around with a member of the same sex?
I am going to split the answers up into female and male. |
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reaper I miss you Shar

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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 8:32 pm Post subject: |
hmmm i think this should be moved lol >.>
i'll give my answer then |
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 8:35 pm Post subject: |
I think it is; cheating is cheating- regardless of the gender; but that could just be me. |
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Andsectoid Router Monkey of DOOM!!!

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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 8:37 pm Post subject: |
I really wanted to get the most input I could. I hoped we could keep it clean and open for maximum exposure. |
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reaper I miss you Shar

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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 8:41 pm Post subject: |
Hmm I’ll go ahead then the mods can do what they want lol
I would say if your partner is going behind your back for sexual gratification from another person that is cheating regardless.
On the other hand if it was discussed with the partner and an agreement was reached I don't think it would be considered cheating.
So i don't think its necisarily yes or no personally |
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Yunni Is a broken record.

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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 9:05 pm Post subject: |
Doesn't matter what gender, if you are fooling around with another person behind your partners back, its cheating > : / |
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Daijaga Chosen of Luck

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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 9:12 pm Post subject: |
I would say "yes" it is.
BUT.
How hard would it be for my wife to get my consent to fool around with other girls? Nigga please. I dunno how girls feel about guys doing that, but I certainly wouldn't be adverse to the idea of her having a not so hetero expereince. That sort of thing is enticing in principle.
So, in summery, yeah, if I didnt know about it. But my consent wouldn't be hard to aquire, my presence not even required. If I give my consent its not cheating. So my vote above is skewed.
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 9:25 pm Post subject: |
Yeah, it's cheating.
When someone goes to someone else for sexual gratification then they're displaying signs that their current love life is lacking in some fasion and are too immature to discuss it with their current partner.
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Shino Fade into this fantasy, caught in the web of time

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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 9:43 am Post subject: |
GAAZ wrote: | Yeah, it's cheating.
When someone goes to someone else for sexual gratification then they're displaying signs that their current love life is lacking in some fashion and are too immature to discuss it with their current partner.
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OMG I corrected someone's spelling...
Wat iz thiz wurld cuming two?
I agree 100% with Gaaz here.
The only thing I will say is that if it is discussed with the partner first and the partner doesn't have an objection... then I think it's ok. It would be ok with me as long as she talked to me about it first.
Technically the same would be true with the opposite sex, however, I don't see this being "permittable" in many situations. It certainly is not in my book. |
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 11:06 am Post subject: |
It is cheating, 100% of the time.
However, if they get your permission, it's still cheating, just that you don't mind, because of hormones, or just being a fool.
If they invite YOU to join, then it is "Sin", and "Sin" can be fun... |
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