Horrible Males

kittenofsences · Otaku Dame Age: 36 Gender: Joined: 30 Jul 2003

Ok this is very hurtful and sorry if you males out there dont like that I have to say but I have to get it out somewhere because i have no one to talk to right now that can get it to a degree that I need I guess

Im 17 years old
My name is Samantha for all of those out there who dont know me
well I got pregnant and I have said and the father... well he is gonna be 27 this year before I turn 18. I am about 2 weeks from my due date and thispast weekend the night before super bowl the father whose name is Jamey went out and slept with my friends mother while at the bar. WELL... I found out and it crushed me so I left him and moved out of state. It seems he does not care and I have found out that he is spreading lies that he left me and I stole things from him and all of this wounderful crap. On top of all of this the bastard is out right now with the same chick who is old enough to be his mother. It so sick and I have no clue where I went wrong or if I did and on top of that I now get to truely tell this kid that his father is scum of the earth and cheated on me while he was still in the womb. All my insecurities about being ugly and disgusting and just all together like crap since im pregnant are just amplified by all of this and at times I just dont want to be alive really but I dont know what the hell to do about any of this. I dont know where to turn or how to make the pain stop and my family just seems to be making it worse. :; starts to sob:: god I hope I dont go into labor early because of all of this stress

Akanari · Owns your reality Gender: Joined: 29 Sep 2004

That's horrid. I'm young like you, and normally date older men, but that... I'm not sure how to put this, but I kind of know how you feel (Well, I probably don't, but I can...imagine). That sense of not being wanted by anyone, that you shouldn't even be here to bother anyone, that you're just a burden. It's all trash. Trash your mind is trying to convince you of. What it really is...is evidence of how good of a person you actually are. You are better than that, excuse me, jackass.
It's stupid of me to say that you should just forget and move on, but it's impossible to forget with the reminder growing in your womb, isn't it?. But with that reminder you can make better things. You'll experience such happiness...such happiness. You will rise again...
Please, email me or im me to talk. There's so much more I can say.

Kagerou · Junior Otaku Gender: Joined: 25 Sep 2005

im young too..turning 16 on the 14th.

i dont think anyone would argue that this guy is scum. but since he is dirt, you can step above him, above it all...find someone who is better.

there are worse cases...i know and despise this man(well i honeslty don't whole heartedly hate him..i just can't) and he ran off with a girl who is as young as his youngest daughter. and he blamed my family for everything. his kids, us, everyone. that is sickening...and even more sickening to know that this man is blood related to me. i haven't seen him for a long time, but at times, seeing my family, looking at everyone...its painful..my heart becomes shattered and cold, just like how he left my family.

i don't quite know you, but i hope you try to look forward...its not his child, its yours. you can give him/her a bright future without that man.

Blackmage · Posted: Sun Feb 12, 2006 3:47 am Post subject:

All I have to say is the man's an ass. So give it to him no-lube style with the child support and no-vistation rights with 100% custody to yourself.

And remember you'll find someone that'll treat you like gold one day.

underpants · awesome sauce! Age: 41 Gender: Joined: 07 Jul 2004

kittenofsences · Otaku Dame Age: 36 Gender: Joined: 30 Jul 2003

thanks people.. it just last night i was crushed over it all... it kinda just smacked me in the face and I realized how lonely I felt over it all.. and dont worry the bastard wont get lube and when im done with him hed with he was in jail gettin it from someone else :: chuckles:: Im tryin hard to just kinda be happy but there isnt much to do to keep your mind off of it and open when you dont know anyone in the area

Shino · Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 9:23 am Post subject:

Hell you could go as far as to through some statutory rape at him. Of course that really depends on what state you are in.

but yeah, make his ass pay!

Andsectoid · Router Monkey of DOOM!!! Gender: Joined: 18 Sep 2003

Agreed.
The guy is scum and should be raked over the coals. I would press charges.
Most women will not take legal action thinking that he will do right on his own… Not going to happen.
If you do not “help him learn” from this experience he will just repeat it again. It’s bad enough that it has happened once; don’t let him do it to someone else.
Screw him over legally.

On a side note to all the younger people out there. USE PROTECTION!!!

Ultrawolf · Mr. Roarke Gender: Joined: 04 Jul 2003

Shino · Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 12:26 pm Post subject: