Females - Hot water here I come

GAAZ · MOD Black Sheep Commander Gender: Joined: 14 Oct 2002

I've decided that since this is my 400th post I would complain about females and their inability to grasp the concept of reality. No, this topic is not an out-right bash at the female race...Simply a statement of some of the things I've noticed about them that urk me since they have since deterred my ability to bestow sweet sweet lovin.

Here we go.

Females and males have many differences, one of them is the ability of forgiveness. Not that forgiveness is bad but with guys forgiveness is when we never bring up the subject again and for females it's a revitalization of all trust in the offended area.

Lets take for example a female cheats on a guy. The guy finds out and is pretty much pissed and the relationship ends based on how long and how many times the female cheated on them. If it was a one time thing that happened thanks to alcohol or the male was not paying attention to her due to finals, death in family or friends, or some other wierd thing like maybe Metroid... The male would forgive the female not by acknowledging the pain she felt but by continuing on with the relationship with benevolent ignorance...Had the female cheated more than once and of her own free will she would be chucked to the curb and a flaming bag of dog poop would be on her doorstep the next day.

Now, if a GUY cheats on a female the female will get mad and MIGHT break-up with the guy but she puts herself in his shoes and reasons that he cheated cause she did something wrong and hence calls him back to her. 2 months later this guy cheats on her again...Of course they break up but with a little begging and pleading she accepts the male back ito her life and razzes him about cheating for the rest of his life thinking that THIS will stop him from cheating again. 5 months later the guy is whippin his dork out for one of the girls friends and the girl catches them somehow probably because the friend couldn't take the pressure of lying. Hence they are now broked up again....Unfortunately the story DOESN'T END HERE! 3 months go buy and the girl and the guy are on speaking terms and she goes to his house and he tells her how he's a changed man and she BELIEVES him! And they are back together... The circle continues till the day they die.

Enter me, during the 3 month hiatus I ask the girl out and we do things go places and what-not...Not official dates but they are the perverbial shoe in the door. At one time things got a bit heated and the relationship seemed to actually start moving beyond friend-land. But wait, the crazy ass mo fo of a guy turns into a stalker and starts following her and harassing her at about 3 AM....They begin to talk to one another again and FWOOMP I'm tossed to the curb and the lying cheating bastard is sliding into home plate once again!

I WAS ok with this... I basically said I wasn't good enough for her since my self-esteem sucks. BUT I have opinions and I in fact hate her BF because he's a prick and cheated on her before and will cheat on her in the future. She for some reason CAN'T see this. My friend and I take shots at her BF on a regular basis since we both think he's bad for her and she has since decided she doesn't WANT us as friends because, "He's a changed man." and I respond with, "Yeah he was a changed man the last 4 times he cheated on you too! Changing who you're cheating on you with each time isn't exaclty what I call a resolve."

So now she hates me and my friend and WE were the ones who were ALWAYS there for her EVERY time that BASTARD cheated on her. WE were the only friends that she had willing to drive 120 miles EVERY weekend if she asked us to. And WE'RE the incensitive ones!

So some of you may think she's right and I'm wrong and if so feel free to rebuttle but don't think I'm basing my assesement that girls are moronic in the forgiveness area this has happened to my sister, to other friends of mine, and even extended family. I just chose this one instance because it's recent and pisses me off.

Doot · Posted: Thu Jan 02, 2003 1:12 pm Post subject:

Let it all out my brother. People are a strange breed indeed.

Just sucks that the good ones have to put up with the moronic ones BS.

Akira · Ambers biotch Age: 35 Gender: Joined: 27 Oct 2002

yes i would say a few things i thought about ceartin females but i wont due to the fact it would be too much pressure...

but yes many females have absolutely no cerebrum...they cannot think straight and they're always confused

not all of them but there are alot of them, coughdootcough

naw im j/k girl,

but i know some on po that just really need to get there priorities in order.

i completely agree with everything you said vegeta keep speakin your mind, we can talk logics sometime.

GAAZ · MOD Black Sheep Commander Gender: Joined: 14 Oct 2002

Eh, that rant was to celebrate my 400th post..I do one about every 100th post...But I do miss the whole friendship thing but eventually he'll cheat on her and I'm a big enough guy to be her friend again in exchange for being allowed to rub her nose in it until she starts dating him again and hence continuin the circle..hehehe.

And I woulda complained about my job but the reason I'm pissed is about 20% my fault and 80% the fault of my client...Oh well... These are the days of our lives I suppose.

Sakura · Saku-chan Gender: Joined: 22 Sep 2002

Well it's good for you to get it out. -nod nod- I mean...getting to a certain post can be very exciting! And your opinions are very good. -nod nod- Even if I am a female. -everyone stares- Ok I'll shut up. Very nice rant! -punches person staring at me-

Saleb Duvat · Senior Otaku Joined: 03 Dec 2002

I just find it ironic you perpetuate the circle by allowing her back into your life when she has done you wrong in the past.... hmmmm. You are definately a good person even if you don't like to admit it.

BTW, the way I see it, women love challenges. We have it within us to nurture and try to bring out the best in the things we care or even think we care about (that's what makes us good mothers). Too bad this friend of yours is wasting that wonderful trait on a ninny!

GAAZ · MOD Black Sheep Commander Gender: Joined: 14 Oct 2002

Well, we never ACTUALLY dated..But I'll let her be my friend I just won't try to give her none of my sweet lovin. It's easy to lose someone you love it's hard to lose a friend...hehehe.

GAAZ · MOD Black Sheep Commander Gender: Joined: 14 Oct 2002

<----Never actually lost anyone they loved so comparison in previous rant wasn't all that fair but still...Bleh!

Akira · Ambers biotch Age: 35 Gender: Joined: 27 Oct 2002

i have lost a freind before and your right...its not easy i had to put up with the wors pain i have ever felt for like 5 days one time and it hurt bad...just gotta do what ya can and try and make it all right again...

Jester · Rookie Joined: 24 Nov 2002

I love how AzVegeta loves to reference me as "a friend" like he cant freakin type my damned name er somethin....pfft guess I know where I stand..anyway topic at had yes this chick is retarded for going back with her loser boyfriend and AzVegeta we have tried to warn her repeatedly so i have officially given up all hope and now leave her to learn from her own mistakes...what I dont understand however is why she was so insistant on yelling at you fer junk that I said. Take my advise man just back off I know ya wanted to show her some of yer "man lovin" but why would ya wanna be with someone like that? I mean losing friends sucks but sometime ya gotta cut strings and just eventually hope that they come back