You ever have one of those sichimashuns? - o_o?

[Bumblebee]

Where something happens to someone, and they feel all mad about it- but they seem to forget that whatever made them mad is exactly what they did to you?
Kinda the hypocritical thing...like...

Let's say, hypothetically(seriously), that a pal of yours...em...ditched you for someone else, right? And they kept doing this and it got you mad...then all of a sudden, the person they ditched you for ditches them, and now that person is mad at the person doing the ditching, and you wanna be all helpful, but NOW it's kinda hard because you feel like saying " well, I know what that's like", or "well, you did that to me", but you don't WANT to because you wanna try and comfort the person- not make them feel bad(although part of you REALLY wants to >D)...so...

That situation is SIMILAR to the one I'm in, but that's not the exact deal...it's a little more serious, but not serious at all. Er...what? ANYWHO! Anyone have those times?

[Sciler]

lol, everyone does at some point I think, but thats a part of friendship, its not a cakewalk, it always takes work. People will have falling outs, but working through them is what makes it a friendship

[Doot]

Don't we know it Sci Sci? I'm glad we worked through our stuff ya know. It all comes around.

Ya just gotta make the person aware, they just may be oblivious, Bumbles.

[Sciler]

~nods~ That we do Dooters

See, Doot and I have had some falling outs, some BIG ones, they lasted kinda long too, but in the long run, we talk about it, say our sorries, kiss and make up.

The kissing and making out...I mean up...is the best part about it all hehehee

[Bumblebee]

Okay...maybe I should elaborate HYPOTHETICALLY(bluntly), lol.

Basically, a gal I was seeing started seeing another guy and didn't tell me. Basically, we were through without me even getting a NOTICE about it all summer vacation...ALL...summer...vacation(that's almost FOUR MONTHS to tell me), and anyways, I've gotten over it, and we're friends...but the guy she quit me for is the guy that broke up with her, so she's mad at him- he's doin almost everything she's done to me...well, anywho, she's a great person, but when I drove her back to class, she was really upset about the whole deal, so I tried to comfort her, but I kept feeling the " HEY! Didn't THIS happen to ME with YOU?" words almost slipping out...and though I did say that(in a WAY nicer tone...well, the first time; the second was kinda just to plant that I had experience in this because of her), I didn't say it as rude as I could have, hell, rude at all, actually.
So yeah...now I'm in this AWKWARD situation where I feel like being there for her, but at the same time, I want to be an ass about it...and that's not COOL(to me) although part of me feels that I need to get that point across.

...I mean, she's a really cool gal- hell, next to this other gal, she's my numba' 1 gal, but now that this situation has come up, I kinda get that "jerk feeling"(which I won't become---I hope)...I dunno. It's one of those "you had to be me to feel my ANGER" situations when I was just dropped.

ANYWHO!!...::draws Doot and Sciler making out:: heheheheEHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! ::moof!::

[Sciler]

lol, draw away

as for the schichimation- I say talk to her about it. yeah you wanna be nice, but at the same time you wanan be an ass...so just try to do it when you're in a really good mood, so that hte inclination to be an ass is less, unless she does something to ask for it lol. But when you're comforting her, just kinda hint adn tell her things you did...for example something like "yeah, i understand how you feel...when it happened to me I just did blah blah blah" ya know? But yeah, if its bothering you (which I can tell it is a tad) the best thing to do is just talk about it. If shes mature, then hopefully she will catch on and not get pissed, but appologise, but if she doesnt, then well...she better not come to GA/FL cause we'll kick her booty!

well, not really but I can whip it