Who wins? Assholes or Nice Guys? - Want the ladies fellas? Get rude!

haterade · Rookie Joined: 12 Apr 2003

Assholes in my opinion. Seems to me that when you give a girl some attitude, or act liek she doesn't exist instead of glare and smile at her, chances are she'll wanna get at you more so than if you were really polite. I've seen it, and even tried it out after, and the success rate of being slightly rude and getting a phone number is better than the 'Hello How is your evening?' speech...

I've had girlfriends, "special" friends andsometimes, women would approach me... is it because I act like they don't exist?

Although I know not all girls are like that...whaddya think? Am I right overall?

Katana · Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2003 6:00 am Post subject:

Not at all in my opinion...

I <3 The niiice guys....

You see, I am a true lady, and i've always liked guys that act like true gentlemen.

You know, open doors for you, kiss your hand when they see you(*<3* that gets me every time) and such things.

Any guy that's rude to me, or glares at me does not get my love, but, rather, my hate.

I'm a woman, and we're beautiful peices of work and should be treated as thus.

Sciler · Mistress Age: 45 Gender: Joined: 15 Sep 2002

depends on the class of woman you seek. If you want the one that just looks pretty but has no substance, self appreciation, or self respect (arm trophies) then sure, be an ass Smile

Thats what you'll get.

If you want a real relationship, one taht has meaning and where respect is mutual and whatnot...then yeah, the nice guy will always get the girl. The girl worth getting anyways.

thats just my 2 cents

Doot · Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2003 1:33 pm Post subject:

Women want a challenge. Now a "nice" guy may come off as being too easily obtained. You can have nice guys that are what women want because they can't have them. To all the nice guys out there, try this approach, be nice, be yourself, but don't come off as easily obtainable. And I assure you the woman you seek will want more of the persuit with you when she realizes it's not a cake walk for her to get you. No need to be an asshole. Just be like "I'm not lookinh for a relationship, but I certainly would like to spend more time with you." That in itself shows that you respect her for her thoughts, and as "sneaky" as it may sound, you are still being very true to your character.

$0.02 worth.

BWS-1 · Otaku Lord Gender: Joined: 25 Sep 2002

I'd say Nice assholes.

A combination of both is the key to success! I mean, it's like saying, what's better? Yin or Yang?

haterade Rock

me

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Ming · DOOM! Gender: Joined: 13 Jan 2003

Ahh...nice guys....something I am very familiar with, being a nice guy and all. I would have to say that nice guys win this. You see, the type of girls that like the rudeness and assholeishness (wow...what a word!) and don't seem to appreciate the niceness, are just simply not worth it. If you're an asshole, you'll inevitably pick up the female equivalent of yourself. It's so hard for nice people to find nice people because nice people are a dying breed that are being exterminated by the assholes. For example, you may have a nice guy who can't seem to find a girl. He sees that the assholes seems to get girls, without actually checking to see what kind of girls the asshole gets. So he decides to become an asshole as well (death of a nice guy), and that's basically what he ends up with. Nice guys may "finish last" but boy do the finish best. They're the ones who will end up in meaningful relationships with people who truly appreciate them for more than status or what the look like. Girls like Katana describes herself as, are the ones that are really the prizes. Not the ones who need the rudeness to notice you. Those are the ones who aren't ready for real relationships, and if a relationship isn't real, then why bother? And I'm going to have to agree with Katana again, that women are truly pieces of artwork, and should be appreciated as such. They don't deserve to be treated poorly. But unfortunately, the "ho's" just aren't worth my time and effort.

DarkStalker · Senior Otaku Gender: Joined: 21 May 2003

in my experance the the a-holes win in the fight for thewomen. Us nice guys just don't have to much of a chance.

Bumblebee · Senior Otaku Age: 41 Gender: Joined: 21 Feb 2003

EDIT:

Wow...that was a really ranty post I posted.

Basically, I don't believe women always choose the asshole over "Mr. Nice guy", but I've had numerous experiences with women where I've been dropped for jerks...big drunken jerks.

No...no I'm not at all bitter over any of it... :firepissed:

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Edited By Bumblebee on 1056321100