Can someone help me?

[Shiny'game]

I have a problem you guys, I am always surrounded by guys, but they only like me as a friend and, personaly, I don't even they think of me as a girl....but the sad thing is I like two of the guys I hang out with and its driving me crazy because something tells me they like me back.

Its crazy, but I was at my friends party, lets call him 'J', the other night and his mom told me he only dresses up when I'm around.

But on the other hand I have my other friend who we will call 'E' for the time being. And his mom like me and is always pleased to see me and mothers usually arn't like that to girls...

What should I do? I've tried to drop hints and do everything I can to find out if they like me, but now...I'm just lost? what should I do?

Please help me!!!!!

yours,

Kat

[Mika]

MMMMMM, thats one sticky wicket LOL! Sorry I find it easy to think about difficlut problems and turn them into a joke to lighten the mood! LOL! Sorry, ok heres my opinion on your problem, A.) which guy do you like better, thats one of the more important problems to deal which, B.)once you figure out which guy you like more just go ask him out! I recently was in the same situation as you and I sked the guy out, unfortunatley he said NO to, be but were still best buds ands besides I'm sure you wouldn't be turned down (you seem very nice LOL! i'M BEING SERIOUS!) Thats all I have to say on this matter, do whatever your heart tells you too do, theress plenty of time for guya all through your life, maybe nows not a good time? Hope this helps!
Respectably-
Mika the elf girl~

[reaper]

As a guy I would say be forward, Most men like to make the first move, but also wont say no if confronted.

[Shiny'game]

What ya'll don't know is that these boys could almost be mistaken as twins....and Reaper-darling, even though some guys like the forward girls, I don't think these two would know what to do if a girl ever hit on them...*sighs*

I'm so confussed....but the way I like them isn't...well.....lets just say they don't take my breath away...you know that hole feeling you get when you go down a rollercoaster and you heart drops from your chest? That what is missing from our relation ship....and the sad this is that these two are best friends and I don't know what I'd do if they got in a fight over me and ended a seven year friendship......*sighs*

Oh well....thank you both...and I will take what you said into concideration....*smiles brightly*

[Mika]

Well that does make the situation worse doesn't it, so sorry I couldn't be of more help! I hope your conflict could just go away but alas I don't have the power to do that! LOL! wISH i DID! hAVE A GOOD mEMORIAL Day!

[Katana]

First off, *I'M* Kat. X3

Hehe...Anyway, truth is, and this is coming from the person running the Relationship Advice topic:

...Ya have to ask or wait it out.

And if you wait it out, you may never know...

Chose wisely.

May you come out with someone as good as I've got.

My wishes with you.


Good luck.

[Shiny'game]

*Smiles* First off, Sorry Kat-chan....Kat is the begining of my real name and people have just takein' to calling me that...I do wish my friends would call me Shiny' but they think the name, along with me, are stupid so....*shrugs* Kat is what I got stuck with.

Waiting it out is how I lost four other potential boyfriends and I don't want that to happen again, but! I also don't want to lose two great friends in the process....its all very complicated....

To Mika-chan,

I hope you have a good memorial day as well! ^^ Your advice did help and I thank you for it...

Thanks everyone!
*Smiles and offers people cupcakes*

[Shiny'game]

*Waves her hands*

You guys...I know I know, I am really messed up in my love life, but I have another problem with ~another~ guy I like! *thinks about how silly she is and sighs*

Ok push the guys who look alike problem to the side...for the moment... Ok, this guy I have know for a year or so, and just to let you know, he is the cutest thing..., anyways...

Sead , not his real name...but hey!, is always sweet to me, he lets me play with his hair, he plays with me, he gives me candy when he has it ...or I ask for it..., he has promised to get me a stuffed animal from one of those claw games..., over all he is just the sweetest guy in the world...

A today he agreed to be my partner in a ParaPara Tournament, *smiles happily bonunces alittle*, and I get the feeling he is flirting with me sometimes...and then again other times I don't get that feeling from him, but when he listens to me its like he is only paying attention to me...but he just graduated from high school and I'm only 16....and I want to go out with him...but wouldn't the age diffrence be kind of odd?

Would he even want to go out with a girl who is still in school? *sighs* help ya'll....I am so confussed.....

[Selrahc the Evil]

Just ask one of them. thats how me and my GF got together.

[BWS-1]

Meybe it ain't a bad thing, I mean I too would have had trouble choising someone to go out with if I had met similar girls like my girlfriend, or even if they are totally different, I think that you can know which you'll love most only with time. That's what helped me, time.The longer you will get to know them, the better it will be. I've been friend for a year and a half with 3 girls I thought I love before realizing which I really loved, the other feeling inside that I was mistaking for love was just a very strong bound of friendship.

It was very confusion since with one of the friend I had, I felt as if she was my sister, but then realized that, as much as I loved her, it was a brother-sister love I had for her, not a soulmate love.