once again the orc needs help - another girl

nor am i · Senior Otaku Gender: Joined: 20 Mar 2003

ok so there's this girl named Vivian that goes to my school. She talks to me everyday. She dresses like a prep but loves punk metal and stuff like that. well anyways here's the scenario:
One day in class i let her borrow my studs because they matched what she was wearing that day. So she goes up to her a-hole boyfriend and he says "what are you wearing adam's stuff for?!" then she said that she likes this kinda stuff and it matched. Her boyfriend then said "Well your a prep and not a punk i don't want u to wear that stuff"
just tell me what u think and what i should do.
I mean its like he's trying to control her or somethin.
oh yeah and also she says "we've worked out our problems" yet they have fights everyweekend.
so anyways just give me some advice please!!
Dunno

Katana · Posted: Tue May 27, 2003 12:47 am Post subject:

What a jerk!

Gah...

You have to talk sense into her...be kind, and not too blunt, but make sure to be blunt enough to be strait to the point. You have to lay it out and say 'Okay, look at how he treats you...' Best of luck.

nor am i · Senior Otaku Gender: Joined: 20 Mar 2003

thanks, i'll use it in the near future

Righty The Wonder Ghoul · Posted: Sat May 31, 2003 12:10 am Post subject:

take your axe and behead the ass. or if you want a serious approach i would say something like what katana said. be firm and just tell her what you think. dont be too soft, let her know that you are the one trying to talk. if there is one thing i learned in life it is dont let people walk on you.

reaper · I miss you Shar Gender: Joined: 28 Dec 2002

You can talk as much as you like, but it might and might not help. women are naturaly more drawn to relationships than men and are usually less willing to give one up. it will probably just take some time for her to realize that he will not chnge and if she wants to be happy she will leave him.

DarkStalker · Senior Otaku Gender: Joined: 21 May 2003

dude your on a tip of a swords blad there man it could workout if you talk to her and all or you might end up hurting your friendship or her a hole of a boy friend might try and rough you up. But hey I have the same troubles as you.

jezzy · crazy uncle Gender: Joined: 12 May 2003

i say that you wait it out for a little bit and see if she figures out how much of a jerk he is...and if she doesn't then tell her your feelings. Maybe that would make her see how much of a jerk he is...and if he said,"Why are you wearing Adams stuff" then he might feel intimadated of you...hope everything works out in your favor...^_^

Sciler · Mistress Age: 45 Gender: Joined: 15 Sep 2002

sounds like the typical high school relationship. People tend to be in htem more for popularity sake and standing, than for actual caring about the person or themselves enough to know they shouldnt be in a relationship like that. its sad actually. Sadly things wont get much better until after high school. Usually people grow up and realise they want more, but sadly some are stuck in a high school mentality and dont really care about who they are with, as long as they are with someone, and someone of "higher" standing is even better.

its actually pretty pathetic.

Selrahc the Evil · true Evil's creator Joined: 18 Mar 2003

um yea well I really can't help you now but um good luck.

Lanfear57 · psycho kitty Gender: Joined: 09 Jun 2003

i hate the jerks of life, and this bf sounds like a stoopid jack@$$ to boot. she might be trying to get you to challenge him. i dunno. i play my own games and this doesn't fall into any of them