if you like some one how do you... - tell them that you like them?

Midori · Junior Otaku Joined: 10 May 2003

well... ok i know i have a lot of problems conserning boys Pout

but... im not very good at talking to them.... Bag

so now ... to the problem!
I like a guy... and im torn between to problems. I want to tell him i like him but im scared of rejection. but i dont wana not tell him because then he will never know!
I have already told you mika i just want more insite.
So basicly the question is not WHAT to do but HOW to say like him!
please help me if you can.... thnx Spin

Sciler · Mistress Age: 45 Gender: Joined: 15 Sep 2002

well, just sit down and talk to him sometime, or do it on the phone if thats more comfortable. IF you know he likes a certain thing (games for example) start off a conversation about games and whatnot and when you're comfortable around each other, then say it ya know? Just explain that you like him, and even if he doesnt like you in return, you at least want to get it out because its botherin you not to. From tehre just see how it goes. its never easy, and never will be. you can either do it, or you can not and always wonder "what if?"

DarkStalker · Senior Otaku Gender: Joined: 21 May 2003

I agree with you sciler that she should just sit him down and talk to him. If it doesn't work out, more then likely he might be just scared of hurting you, or the fates just don't see him weaved in your thread of life. All though I'm in the same set like you witha girl I like, but I have no way of tell her because all my friends are over at my house when she is so it becomes uncomfortable and I stall. That what if question is a big pain in my side and you seem like a good person and shouldn't have to deal with that thorn like I have to(I don't whant to see good people get hurt, thats my one true weakness in this game of life, but hey someone has to bare it so at least I know I can spare the pain for everyone else).

Mika · Otaku Knight Joined: 05 May 2003

LOL Laura! i KNOW THIS WHOLE STORY AND I ALREADY TOLD YA WHAT A THINK! lol! c-ya tomorrow! Laugh

we can talk then!

Selrahc the Evil · true Evil's creator Joined: 18 Mar 2003

I think Sciler is right too. And I just want to say that if it worked for my GF with me it might work for you to.

Lanfear57 · psycho kitty Gender: Joined: 09 Jun 2003

selrahc, she asked you.
and its always better to get out of the land of if only...

Selrahc the Evil · true Evil's creator Joined: 18 Mar 2003

what do you mean by the land of if only???

Lanfear57 · psycho kitty Gender: Joined: 09 Jun 2003

if only i had said this... or not done that
when its too late to do a thing
or the land of what if

Ultrawolf · Mr. Roarke Gender: Joined: 04 Jul 2003

just sit that guy down and smack him across the face saying "if you dont listen to my every command i will < hideous torture> and/or show < incriminating photo> . then after that you better love me or i'll tell your < family member > that you are < naughty action > " feel free to edit/copy this in order to sort your needs.

Lanfear57 · psycho kitty Gender: Joined: 09 Jun 2003

"if you dont listen to my every command i will [peel your eyeballs] and/or show [this pic with your finger up your nose]. then after that you better love me or i'll tell your [dog] that you are [neener neener neener]"
ooh - fun mad lib!!!