Broken-Hearted

[Tenshiai]

Hang on... I'm with you. I know that's hurt very much. Never surrending because you're maybe one in the humanity but one who hang on give courage to another one to do so it make slowly ligthen up people and you too. Time will help too. It's not to forget but to accept. Good thing you're in proceed.

Just ask yourself what is better ? Live in a lie and miss the truth or realise the lie that open you to the truth ? I know you probably have already do.

Where is the REAL happiness ? in truth or in lie?
I think that something real can't logically be a lie.

You know, it's hard to overcome these kind of emotion but asking ourself the good question can help. Asking ourself the bad question will not and increase the pain.

Good luck and hang on.

[Sakura]

Hey girl, don't worry about him.

He truly is no good, because you are beautiful, wonderful, smart, and very outgoing. Truly one of the most perfect girls around and one of the most coolest too! So don't be down.

Besides... Your wife and husband is much more cooler than him.

[Terin]

*hugs katana*
things will work out. I promise j00!

[Lewis Black]

Katana is a sexzy girl. I'd like to pinch her bottoms anyday. Wurd.

[Lanfear57]

DONT LISTEN TO ME IM DEPRESSED AND DUMPED TOO

things dont always work out.
and sometimes(like me) the one that got dumped didnt deserve the relationsihp anyways. just being selfish and greedy wanting it to go on when there is very little there to support it, not seeing the other person.....
thats when things dont work out. when you realize you truly are just another piece of worhtless shit and your no better than the rest of humanity, stupid bastards that they are. that we are.

[Therin]

*points everyone toward Selrhac's post*

What he said.

*turns to Lan*

Didn't deserve the relationship. How can you say that? How can you even think it!? You deserved every wonderful moment we spent together. I wouldn't take any of it back for anything in the world. What you don't deserve is to sit through a relationship as it rots. As one half simply ceases to care. What you don't deserve is to suffer the endless longing and lack of closure that would have happened eventually when I simply forgot about you. Now, this is not to say you aren't worth it. You were, and are worth every bloody second you breathe in this world, and someday, someone else will realize that fact and act on it and you will be in love with him or her more than you ever could have pretended to be with me. I understand that you feel bad, more than you will probably ever know, but don't ever, EVER say that you aren't worth it, because that is a straight out, bald-faced lie. You deserve the best that anyone can give you. If you don't get the best, work toward the best. Put the past behind you, because that's what it is. The past. It is there solely for informative purposes, that's why reality developed a thing called memory. So that we could learn from things that had happened. Everything you see, everything that goes on around you has something to teach, from something as innoccuous as a paper airplane flying past your head just there, to things as huge and world-effecting as the holocaust. They are not there to replace or to overshadow the present, they are simply there to be read, like books, from your perspective in the present. If you were reading this in a novel, you would be sad, but you would keep reading, because you would want to know if the heroine ever found true love. Apply that habit to real life.

[Lanfear57]

i never f "pretended" to love you.
and why the hell do i deserve f anything?

[Katana]

[Sperrit]

I honestly don't know why everyone has to refer to the love that you felt in a relationship as "Pretend Love" or some other crap like that. I have been in relationships with about a half a dozen people in my life thus far and I loved every one of them, and still do. Just because your love wasn't returned doesn't mean that you cannot or do not love that thing with all of your heart, it just means that it/they didn't love you back. Love isn't something that requires mutual action, its a feeling that you have for someone, an bond created by your own emotions and not dictated by how others see you, or feel about you in return. Perhaps, instead, this view of "fake love" is concocted so that one can feel better about moving on, the one who dumped them convincing themselves that they did the right thing, and the one who got dumped convincing themselves that its really for the better. But I say thee, nay. If during that relationship you were honestly able to say to yourself that you were in love I find it absolutely appalling to deny it so vehemently later. The results don't change the process, how it ended up does not change how you felt during, and to deny the truth of it is to propegate a lie, to deny the pure beauty of love in all it's forms, reciprocated or not. Love is a wonderful thing, and it can exist in many different ways. Love should be appreciated not only for the feeling of having it given back to you, but for the experience of giving your love to someone else, the experience of taking that risk, like jumping out of a plane at several thousand feet. It takes bravery, guts and a love for life and emotion that is too beautiful to be denied.

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[Terin]

True dat. I think most people confuse infatuation with love. Most of the time, I think infatuation grows into love, but the two are easily confused. Here's a good way to tell the difference:

If the relatioship seems "perfect", and you are afraid to do certain things you normally would do because you are unsure of what their reaction should be, then you aren't in love, most likely only infatuation. Love is accepting, truly accepting ones faults, and them the same to you. It's about sacrificing your own ideals because you care, not just because you hope it will make them like you more.
Again, the opposite applies. Anyway, these are only my opinions, but I hope they help. I'm not saying infatuation is wrong, it's the best way for love to blossom. Just don't be afraid to be yourself.